I know what it feels like when life doesn’t go to plan
I know what it feels like to have the future you imagined suddenly disappear, to question who you are, to wonder what comes next, and to feel grateful to be here, but still unsure how to fully live again.
My own wake-up call came through a stage 4 blood cancer diagnosis in 2018. It changed everything - my body, my fertility, my identity, my work, and the way I saw my life. But as hard as it was, it was also the beginning of a deeper journey back to myself.
My story
At 37, I was diagnosed with stage 4 blood cancer. It was an aggressive type, so within three hours, I had started chemotherapy. There was no time to freeze my eggs, no time to process what was happening, no time to prepare. Just time to survive. In a matter of months, I lost my fertility, my hair, my independence, my ability to work, and a huge part of my identity.
I was also single at the time, and one question kept haunting me:
How I found my purpose
Finding purpose after cancer did not happen overnight.
It unfolded slowly, through grief, frustration, self-doubt, inner work, and learning to trust myself again.
I began to see how much of my life had been shaped by old stories: the story that my worth came from being chosen, the story that my life had to follow a certain timeline, the story that I had to be impressive, pleasing, or perfect to be loved, and the story that if life did not go to plan, I had somehow failed.
Through Jungian coaching, depth work, and self-inquiry, I began to understand those patterns at a deeper level.
I stopped trying to fix myself. I started listening to myself.
And slowly, the pain I had lived through became part of my purpose.
Why I do this work now
Now, eight years later and cancer-free, I am a certified Master Jungian Life Coach, writer, and actress.
I help women begin again when life has not gone to plan.
But I do not believe in forcing yourself to be positive or pretending you are fine when you are still trying to make sense of it all.
When life changes you, you need space to be honest about what you have been through, what you have lost, what still feels possible, and who you are becoming now.
That is the space I hold in my coaching.
Through my own healing, training, and creative work, I found my own way of bringing storytelling and coaching together to help women stop living from a script they were handed and begin creating a life that feels more true, purposeful, and their own.
My mission is to help women break free from past conditioning and live their life to their true potential.
I know what it feels like to survive something and then wonder, “Now what?” And I know how powerful it can be when your story becomes the doorway back to yourself.
Who is going to love me now?
It wasn’t just about romantic love. It was about all the stories I had been conditioned to believe about my worth, my identity, my belonging, my future, and my purpose. Who was I now? Who was I without my hair, with my body changing, without work, and without the future I thought I was moving towards? Cancer did not just affect my health. It changed the way I saw everything.
The turning point
Before cancer, I had been an aspiring actor.
After treatment, when I was finally well enough to audition again, my first audition was - I kid you not - for a cancer patient. And I didn’t get it. At the time, it felt almost ridiculous. But looking back, that moment became strangely defining. I realised I no longer wanted to wait for someone else to cast me in a story. I had to choose myself.
I had to stop waiting for permission, stop waiting to be picked, and stop waiting for life to look the way I thought it should before I could begin.
That was the start of a deeper journey.
How this shapes my work
My coaching blends Jungian psychology, social neuroscience, Eastern philosophy, self-compassion, and storytelling.
But in simple terms, we look beneath the surface.
We explore the old stories you have been living from, the patterns that keep repeating, and the parts of yourself you may have hidden or abandoned in order to be accepted, loved, or safe.
This work is not about becoming someone else. It is about coming back to who you really are.